Ridem - you're breaking new ground on the forum. ECU reflash and great new farkles. Nice going!
Did you purchase the large Honda wing on Ebay or via a parts supplier? And if the later, do you have a part number?
I've tried ordering emblems, mainly sight unseen from parts suppliers. My latest was a nice silver 3D "HONDA" emblem. Only problem was that is was curved in 2 dimensions. :-/
Keep up the good work and let us know how the ECU reflash works out on the road.