Thanks to everyone who reached out via text, private message, and the posts on this Thread. It is humbling to be a member of this Crew with so many great people who know how to make a bad day less so.
Among the many charms of this Forum are graciousness, maturity, perspective, and humor. When I was at my worst, I remember the Ferret's gentle coaching on materialism and how easy it is to focus on the negative rather than the important. And when I really started feeling sorry for myself, I remembered the post from Empty Sea, which encouraged me to turn to bourbon and a cigar to get through the moment. I will leave both to him, but I am even more excited to meet him in person in August. I can already tell he is a force of nature. It would not surprise me if they named a hurricane after him this season. But no one summed things up better for me than Cormanus, whose words made me laugh as I masked up while I sorted through what was ultimately declared a hazmat site: "Fire: Bloody hell, David."
It is my hope that none of you will ever experience a house fire. Dreadful stuff. But if you do, hope that a Firefighter like Mangna Rider answers the call. He and others like him use skill, bravery, and determination not only to put out the fire but, more importantly, to give you a fresh start to build upon the next day.
The following addresses the questions that have been sent to me and provides practical advice on how to deal with a fire when a motorcycle and gear are involved. My prayer this morning is that you will never, ever have to refer to this list.
House fires often become chemical, toxic fires because of all the things that burn: insulation, wood, laminates, wires, paint, etc. When I arrived on scene, I was met by a building inspector who made it very clear just how dangerous exposure can be:
Let the Fire Department extinguish everything without any interference or questions. They have a job to do, and Firefighters are well equipped to make sure the fire does not rekindle (fire starts again). Let the Incident Commander focus on the Crew and then your property. He will take good care of both.
After the fire has been declared "out," let the cleanup crew enter the property next and clean up the sludge and debris. They will also make sure that the house's integrity is such that it can be entered safely. It is incredibly tempting to want to rush in and retrieve your valuables. Find a way to resist. For me, the best approach was not to report on scene until I received a call informing me that I could enter the dwelling. If possible, have the building inspector join you for the initial walk-through. He will tell you how to conduct yourself and the appropriate measures to take to protect yourself.
Prepare for the worst. It can be emotionally taxing to see a lifetime of memories and belongings altered. Take pictures of the structure and your damaged possessions. You will need both for the insurance adjusters. In my case, I was told the chemical fire was so severe that anything made of fabric, plastic, or wood was unsalvageable. Those materials are porous, and even if they appear undamaged, their chemical composition is altered with bad nasties that can lead to serious medical conditions. Things made of metal would be fine after a deep cleaning and some airing out. In my case, I was able to salvage my bicycles and motorcycles, but everything else was lost. Silly as it is, I was very emotionally attached to the riding gear because it reminded me of cherished moments. But I did what needed to be done: I documented the scene, photographed the items I had to leave behind, organized them so the salvage crew could easily remove them, and filed an insurance claim this morning. Insurance adjusters also want to help, but they operate under strict guidelines, too. Here are a few of the motorcycle-related pictures. I will spare you the other 50 involving computer stuff, clothing, and personal effects. When you take pictures, try as best you can to show exactly what was lost and make sure you turn on the GPS location setting on your camera to confirm the location where the picture was taken and the day and time:
When it was all done, I needed something to help me leave the site behind. The neighbor couple whose kids had unintentionally set it approached me during one of my 15-minute breaks. With tears in her eyes, she told me how sorry they were for what happened. They are youth ministers focused on helping disadvantaged kids walk a righteous path. I told her and her husband to unburden themselves and learn from this incident, but not be defined by it. I also reminded her that no one was in the house, that no occupants or firefighters were hurt, and that time and the insurance companies would eventually make things right. I told the young couple I was much more worried about them than the items I was leaving behind, and that I would remember them at Mass on Sunday. She seemed comforted.
My final act was to find a home for four tomato plants and three corn stalks. All were fruiting on the porch when the blaze started. They survived without any damage. My orphans needed a home, and I am pleased to report that the former Deputy Chief of Operations for the local fire department took them in:
Despite the veneer of being an educated man who has traveled the world, deep down, I am just a southern country boy who belongs on a bike or a motorcycle below the Mason-Dixon line. I am thinking it is about time for me to make that my norm and not the exception. But I will set that romantic notion aside when the insurance claim is received so I can go shopping. Thanks for the love. David