Being seen

[Rocky_imp]

Im hesitant to use the flash to passed switch (on the left hand switch btw) because when I was growing up flashing the high beams was a signal to tell the other driver " go ahead and turn/ pull out", I am giving you room. Not sure if younger drivers would read it that way or not.

I agree. This is a common signal to another vehicle to go and could lead to a disaster if you really don't intend for that person to take the right of way.
I often flash my lights when I'm in my car, but on my bike I'll either raise my arm to signal another vehicle to go or gesture with my head - depending on the situation.